Cemetery Rules and Regulations

For the mutual protection of lot owners and the Cemetery as a whole, the following rules and regulations have been adopted by the Wendell Cemetery Commissioners, and approved by Town Meeting vote, pursuant to the Acts of 1890, Chapter 264 and M.G.L. c. 114, section 23 as the rules and regulations for all the Town of Wendell cemeteries.

All persons entering the cemetery, including lot owners, and all property of the cemetery, including lots sold, shall be subject to these Rules and Regulations and further to such other Rules and Regulations, amendments and/or alterations adopted, pursuant to state and local law, from time to time. Reference to these Rules and Regulations in the Deed to a lot shall have the same force and effect as if set forth fully therein.

1. Definitions

  1. Cemetery – A burial park for earth interments,
  2. Deed – The original conveyance given by the Town of Wendell to the original purchaser.
  3. Grave – A place for burial that is 10 ft. long by 48 inches wide.
  4. Interment – The permanent disposition of the remains of a deceased person by cremation or traditional burial.
  5. Lot – Numbered division as shown on the record plot, which consist of one or more graves.
  6. Lot Marker – Any means used by the Cemetery Department to locate corners of the lot or grave.
  7. Marker – Small, flush, stone items used to identify the interred or the corners of a lot, usually placed at the foot of a grave. Also refers to those items given to US Veterans to identify interred.
  8. Monument – A large memorial, placed at the head of a lot centered upon deeded graves.
  9. Vault – A reinforced concrete grave liner box. No vault over 34 inches in exterior width will be accepted for a single grave. If a lot owner needs to use a vault larger than 34 inches in exterior width, two graves will be required for the interment.


The Cemetery expressly disclaims liability for any injuries sustained by anyone violating this rule.

  1. Picking flowers, wild or cultivated, breaking or injuring any tree, shrub or plant, or writing upon, defacing or injuring any memorials, fence, or other structures within the Cemetery grounds by any person is prohibited. Violation of this rule is also a violation of state laws (M.G.L. c 272, sects. 73, 74, 75) under which violators may be subject to criminal prosecution resulting in fines and/or imprisonment. Picking flowers, wild or cultivated, breaking or injuring any tree, shrub or plant or writing upon, defacing or injuring any memorials, fence,or other structures within the Cemetery grounds by any person is prohibited. Violations of this is also a violation of state laws (M.G.L. C272, sects. 73, 74, 75) under wheich violators may be subject to criminal prosecution resulting in fines and/or imprisonment.
  2. Motor vehicles must be kept under complete control at all times. When meeting a funeral procession, they must stop until the procession passes. They must not pass a funeral procession going in the same direction. Motor vehicles must not be left with the engine running and the emergency brakes must be set when the driver is not in his/her seat. Mufflers must not be opened, nor the horn sounded within the Cemetery.
  3. The following is prohibited:
    1. Driving more than 10 mph within the grounds of the cemetery.
    2. Driving any wheeled vehicle, motorized or otherwise, or riding any animal across or upon any grave, lot or lawn, or parking or leaving the same thereon.
    3. Parking or leaving any motor vehicle on any road or driveway within the Cemetery at such location or in such position as to prevent any other vehicle from passing. The Town may have any vehicle violating this rule towed at the owner’s expense.
  4. In order to maintain the solemnity of the Cemetery, the following activities are prohibited.
    1. Loud or boisterous talking
    2. Loitering on the grounds, or in any of the buildings.
    3. Peddling or soliciting
    4. Placing of signs noticed or advertisements of any kind
    5. Bringing firearms into the Cemetery except by a military escort accompanying a veteran’s funeral or attending memorial services.
  5. Special cases may arise in which the literal enforcement of a rule may impose unnecessary hardship. The Cemetery Commission, therefore, reserves the right to make exceptions, suspensions or modifications of any of these Rules and Regulations, without notice, when in the judgment of the Commission such action appears necessary. Such temporary exception, suspension or modification shall in no way be construed as affecting the general application of such Rules and Regulations.
  6. The Cemetery Commission reserves the right to add to, amend, alter or repeal these Rules and Regulations pursuant to M.G.L. c. 114, sec. 23.


  1. Persons desiring to purchase a grave, lot or lots should contact the Cemetery Commission where the Commission will aid them in making a selection, and will issue a memorandum describing the lot purchased.
  2. Before any stone, marker or shrubs are placed or planted on a grave or lot, complete payment for the grave must be made to the Town of Wendell Cemetery Commission for the lot, unless waived by the Commission. The Cemetery Commissioners will issue, when the lot is paid in full, a deed/certificate of Ownership for burial purposes.
  3. No lot or grave shall be used for any purpose other than for burial of the human dead.
  4. No easement or right of interment is granted to any grave owner in any road, drive, alley or walk within the Cemetery, but such road, drive alley or walk may be used as a means of access to the Cemetery or buildings, as long as the Cemetery Commission devotes it to that purpose.
  5. The Cemetery Commission reserves the right to
    1. enlarge, reduce, re-plot, or change the boundaries or grading of the Cemetery, or a section or sections, from time-to-time, including the right to modify or change the locations or remove or re-grade roads, drives or walks, or any part thereof.
    2. lay, maintain, and operate or alter or change pipelines or gutters for sprinkler systems, water systems, drainage, etc.
    3. use Cemetery property not sold to individual grave owners for Cemetery purposes, including interment of the deceased, or for anything necessary, incidental or convenient thereto.
  6. The Cemetery Management and Commission reserves to it and to those lawfully entitled thereto, a perpetual right of ingress and egress over graves for the purpose of passing to and from other graves or lots.
  7. Cemetery Commission will take all reasonable precautions to protect lot owners, and the property rights of grave owners, within the Cemetery from loss or damage except for loss or damage from causes beyond its reasonable control such as damage caused by the elements, an act of God, thieves, vandals, explosions, unavoidable accidents, riots or order of any military or civil authority, whether the damage be direct or collateral, other than herein provided.
  8. It is the duty of the grave owner to notify the Management of any change in mailing address.

The instrument of conveyance, these Rules and Regulations, and any amendments thereto, constitute the sole agreement between the Cemetery Commission and the grave owner. The statement of any employee or agent, unless confirmed in writing by the Cemetery Commissioners, shall in no way bind the Cemetery Commission, or the Town of Wendell.


  1. The general care of the Cemetery is assumed by the Commission and includes the cutting of the grass at reasonable intervals and the raking and cleaning of the grounds, as deemed needed by the Commission.
  2. This general care shall in no case mean the maintenance, repair or replacement of any memorial, tomb, or mausoleum placed or erected upon lots, nor the doing of any special or unusual work in the Cemetery except as authorized by the Cemetery Commission. Additionally excluded is the reconstruction of any marble or granite work on any section or grave or any portion or portions thereof in the Cemetery, caused by the elements, an act of God, thieves, vandals, explosions, unavoidable accidents, or by the order of any military or civil authority, whether the damage be direct or collateral, other than herein provided.
  3. Funds for this general care shall be provided by town appropriations pursuant to M.G.L. c. 114, sec. 16.
  4. Pursuant to M.G. L. c. 114, sec. 25, the Town of Wendell may receive gifts or bequests for maintenance of the Cemetery. These funds shall be paid to the Town Treasurer, kept separate from other town funds and accounts, and invested in accordance with any stipulations from the grantor, if any. Proceeds of lot sales or rights of burial shall be paid into the town treasury and appropriated to reimburse the town for the cost of land, its care, improvement, and embellishment, or the enlargement of the cemetery.
  5. Pursuant to M.G.L. c 114, sec. 19, the Town of Wendell may receive, hold and apply any funds, money or securities deposited with the Town Treasurer for the preservation, care, improvement or embellishment of the Cemetery’ or of lots in the Cemetery. The Town Treasurer shall invest these monies to ensure a maximum income.


  1. The Cemetery Commissioners reserve, and shall have, the right to correct any errors that may be made by it either in making interments, disinterment or removals, or the description, transfer or conveyance of any interment property, either by canceling such conveyance and substituting any conveying in lieu thereof other interment property of equal value and similar locations as far as possible, or as may be selected by the Commission, or, in the sole discretion of the Commission, by refunding the amount of money paid on account of said purchase. In the event such error shall involve the interment of the remains of any person in such property, the Cemetery Commissioners reserve, and shall have the right to remove or transfer such remains so interred to such other property, consistent with the law, of equal value and similar location as may be substituted and conveyed in lieu thereof.


  1. The Laws of the Commonwealth of Massachusetts govern descent of title to Cemetery lots as well as other matters pertaining to assignments, conveyances, devises, trust deeds and inalienability. The Cemetery Commission will assist any lot owner who desires information or advice on questions pertaining to his/her lot.


  1. Except for Winter Months (starting when the ground freezes until the ground has thawed and is dry enough to be mud free) the Cemetery will be open for interments at regular rates between 8 AM and 2 PM, Monday through Friday. Funerals that will enter the Cemetery after 2 PM, Monday through Friday may be subject to extra fees. Saturday funerals are subject to higher fees. No burials to take place on Sundays, Memorial Day, Independence Day, Thanksgiving Day, Christmas Day or New Year’s Day. When Memorial Day or Independence Day falls on a Saturday or Monday, and delay will cause unreasonable hardship or inconvenience, interments may be made on such days, but an additional fee will be added to the regular charge.
  2. Where immediate burial is required by state law or under the rules and regulations of the Wendell Board of Health, interments may be made on Sundays and holidays, but an additional fee will be added to the regular interment charge and entrance to the Cemetery will be allowed only to the hearse and vehicles in the funeral procession.
  3. All funerals upon entering the Cemetery shall be under the charge of the Cemetery Commission.
  4. Once a casket containing a body is within the confines of the Cemetery, no funeral director, or their staff, shall be permitted to open the casket or to touch the body without the consent of the legal representative of the deceased or by court order.
  5. Funeral directors, upon arrival at the Cemetery, must present the burial permit issued by the Board of Health.
  6. Lot owners shall not allow burials in their lots for remuneration of any kind.
  7. One traditional burial and up to three cremation burials or four cremation burials with no traditional burial are the maximum allowed in any single grave. No interment of two or more traditional burials in one grave, except in the case of parent and child or two infants buried in one casket.
  8. When an interment is to be made in a lot, the lot owner shall designate the location of such interment. Should the lot owner fail or neglect to make such designation, the Cemetery Commissioners reserve the right to make the interment in a location designated by the Commissioners.
  9. The Commissioners and the employees of the Cemetery are the only persons who will be permitted to open graves with the following exceptions.
    1. When the Cemetery is directed to make a disinterment by judicial order and a certified copy of such order has been filed with the Cemetery Commissioners, or
    2. When the Medical Examiner directs the disinterment for the purpose of holding an inquest and has filed with the Management a legal, signed authorization to release the body to the Medical Examiner or lawful agent. In such cases, the Medical Examiner or lawful agent does the disinterment. Cemetery employees will not be permitted to assist.
  10. All charges for interment or services in connection therewith, shall be paid to the Cemetery Commissioners before or at the time of the burial.
  11. Arrangements for the payment of indebtedness due the Cemetery must be made before interment is made.
  12. The Cemetery Management or Commissioners reserve the right to insist upon at least thirty-six (36) hours notice prior to any interment and at least one weeks notice prior to any disinterment or removal.
  13. All interments, disinterment, and removals must be made at the time, in the manner, and upon the charges fixed by the Commissioners.
  14. Besides being subject to these Rules and Regulations, all interments, disinterment and removals are made subject to local and state laws, by-laws, ordinances or regulations.
  15. The Cemetery Commissioners will not be responsible for any order given by telephone or for any mistake occurring from the want of precise and proper instructions as to the particular space, size of grave and location of a grave where interment is desired.
  16. The Cemetery Management or Commissioners will not be liable for the interment permit nor for the identity of the person sought to be interred.


  1. Monument gardens are permissible as long as they are planted within the following guidelines:
    1. Vines, thorny plants or invasive species bushes are not permissible.
    2. Black plastic is not permitted in gardens.
    3. Gardens may be edged with natural products only. (i.e.: bricks, rocks, pavers)
    4. No plastic edging, plastic fencing or metal wire fencing may be used. The cemetery department will remove them.
    5. No baskets or containers shall be wired down
  2. No shrubs shall be planted without consent of the commission. Shrubs shall not exceed fifteen (15) inches in diameter and shall not grow higher than the monument (maximum height three (3) feet) It is the lot owners’ responsibility to maintain their shrubs within these specifications. Any shrub planted without consent, or overgrown will be removed at the cemetery departments’ convenience. No trees of any species are allowed.
  3. The Cemetery Commissioners shall not be responsible for any kind of plantings or lot decorations damaged by the elements, vandals, thieves or other causes beyond its control. The Commissioners shall have the further authority to remove all floral designs, flowers, weeds, trees, shrubs, plants, herbage or decorations of any kind from the cemetery as soon as, in the judgment of the Commission, they become unsightly, dangerous, detrimental or diseased, or do not conform to the standard maintained.
  4. The Cemetery Department shall not be liable for floral pieces, baskets or frames in which, or to which, such floral pieces are attached, nor for such floral pieces for Memorial services held in the Cemetery.
  5. Family members and caretakers may place artificial floral arrangements on the graves of their loved ones if they are within 12 inches from the base of the monument, weighted down and firmly secured to prevent blowing off the grave by the wind, from May 1st thru October 1st in the cemeteries in the Town of Wendell.


  1. No Monument or Display shall be installed that infringes upon any other lot not deeded to the owner(s) family.
  2. No Monument or Display may be installed that constitutes a maintenance or safety issue as determined by the Cemetery Commission. Any monument or display deemed as such may be removed by the Cemetery Commission at any time.
  3. No Monument or Display may be installed that is deemed offensive, vulgar, and distasteful or out of character by either the Cemetery Commission or Town of Wendell Board of Selectman. Any such Monument or Display may be removed and discarded by order of the Board of Selectman or the Cemetery Commission.


The Cemetery Commission is hereby empowered to enforce all Rules and Regulation, and to exclude from the Cemetery any person violating the same. The Commission shall have charge of the grounds and buildings including the conduct of funerals, traffic, employees, grave owners, and visitors, and at all times, shall have supervision and control of the Cemetery and may remove any person violating any of these Rules.

Revised August 8, 2018

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